Hi!
A couple of weeks ago I made an announcement over on the facebook page that my Summer schedule is going to be a bit compressed this year as my husband is going to deploy {hopefully you saw it!}. I didn't plan on making that announcement quite so early but since I have received a number of bookings for May and into June I thought it was best to give as much of a heads up as possible.
Sooooo in case you didn't see the announcement: heads up! ;)
Since I have a number of followers who are military members and spouses I thought I'd bare a bit of my soul in hopes of maybe getting some feedback.
You see, this is going to be our very FIRST deployment as a couple and well... I'm not sure how I feel!
I'm definitely a mixture of "we have a REALLY long time before he's gone, this ain't no thang" and "oh my gosh I am SUPER not looking forward to this" mashed together with "......{tight knot in my stomach}..... {blank face}." And all of those are really dependent upon what day it is. There's no telling how I'll feel each day of the week or even each time someone asks me about it!
Like I said: I'm not really sure how I feel right now.
When we first got married my husband ended up having to leave for some training just THREE WEEKS after our wedding and we ended up 900 miles apart for the first eight months of our marriage. {Lucky ducks we were that we had chosen the wedding date we did, right?! haha Little did we know the Air Force would be yanking him away so soon after!} So thus far we've pretty much been resting on the mentality that "hey we've been apart for long periods of time before- easy peasy lemon squeezy, right?!"
But it's totally not the same thing.
I know that.
And he knows that.
So if I've learned ANYTHING from my military spouse friends it's the following:
1. I'll be fine. I won't die. My life won't crumble.
2. Things. WILL. Break.
Or stop working. Or fall out of my ceiling. Or move into my attic. or or or. But in short everything decides to stop working almost as soon as your active duty spouse has boots on the ground. (amiright?!)
3. I should stay busy.
Busyness helps the time pass and keeps me feeling productive and positive.
4. I will have lonely and sad days {and that's ok!}.
5. Keep communication open and don't be surprised when some days I have nothing to talk about with my husband.
6. Surround myself with goodness and positive people
{that's YOU guys!! No pressure ;) }
7. Don't watch the news.
I will- without fail- think every story is really about my husband and where he is located. So just don't watch the news.
OK soooo that's all I've got.
Any other advice or suggestions any of my seasoned Sarah Elle Photography family members have for me??? And on top of that I'd LOVE to hear advice from the active duty member on what you need from your spouse while you're gone! I could totally use any and all suggestions- so lay 'em on me!
With love and thanks,
Sarah
This is us last year at the Zac Brown Band show for our anniversary. Heeeey!